Sunday, November 1, 2009

Sid's Thoughts
April 10, 2008

When I get a sister I am not listening to Gray. Im going
to play with Kati. Gray is annoying and so hopefully Kati will not be, God has given us a little sister.
Sid Ortis

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Sid, you will have fun playing with Gray and Kati. You will be the big brother to both of them like Andy is to you. Isn't it wonderful having two brothers and soon you will have a little sister. We love you.
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Posted by: Itty and Granddaddy on May 19, 2008 at 04:18 A.M.

Homestudy Update
April 10, 2008

We will have our home meeting Tuesday night at 7:00.I am really ready to have this over with. It has always made me nervous to know someone is watching me mother!!I hope I can just act normal!!!!In our agency there are two young social work interns that will be at our house too.Scott and I love them and are glad they will be there.One of them was internationally adopted and she shared with us how that felt and it was very eye opening!!!!We love her personality and told her we wish we could adopt her!!!! I will say this process seems so invasive but I know it is worth it

Baseball
April 9, 2008

It's that time of year again.Baseball. Andy and Sid are playing and it consumes our life. This is just rec league .If you play all-stars then it is all June long.I have always hated sports and I think the reason why is I am not a good sport!!!!Last year Andy did not make all stars and it took along time to not blame the other Dads!!!!Scott coaches, but in Sids grade.Andy was so hurt . We were hurt for him. It is so hard to watch your child suffer but at the same time this is where character is formed!!My generation ,myself included, think we need to protect our children from any uncomfortable situation .God is a perfect parent, and I will tell you from first hand experience ,he has let me go through some rejection and failure. I finally understand where" I am weak he is strong".Okay enough of that, I am really glad that at least no baseball for Kati.

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God is good and He does teach us through our hard times.
Kati, how exciting it is to know you are chosen and placed in our family. We love you!
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Posted by: Mom and Dad on April 9, 2008 at 05:13 A.M.
My post have been Mom and Dad and I have meant Itty and Granddaddy. I do not know why it posted twice but that's life!
love you.
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Posted by: Itty and Granddaddy on April 9, 2008 at 05:17 A.M.
Lynn and Scott & boys...We can't wait to meet Miss Kati. She will certainly be placed in a wonderful, God loving home. We are so proud of ya'll for opening your hearts and home to a precious little girl! I'll keep checking your progress. Love,Ginger
Those boys won't know what hit them.
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Female Bonding
April 8, 2008

I am so fortunate to have a great relationship with my Mother and I was very close to my maternal Grandmother. I am also blessed with some really close girl friends that have been awesome to support and listen to me as I do this adoption thing.These female relationships have helped mold me into what I am today. Let's face it men and women are different.Men want to solve your problem and women want to analyze it.I realized the other day when I was at lunch( at Zoe's) with my family how my boys don't like being asked 100 questions in 10 seconds.As I looked at their blank faces and I was the only one talking I realized how outnumbered I am.It will be so nice to have another female in our house!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I really can't wait to see the personality God has given Kati.I know it will be a perfect fit for us.edit

Homestudy
April 7, 2008

We are waiting for our social worker to call to set up a meeting in our home. This makes me nervous because my 4 year old calls everybody wienie! I don't know where this came from and it can't be a good thing.He is such a sweet child but he has his own mind.His pre-school teacher said he was saying potty words at school to make his friends laugh. We are cracking down but sometimes we want to crack up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!edit

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I am so excited to be a part of this wonderful time with the Ortis clan. What a gift Kati is going to be for all of us! I am praying for her to come and join us QUICKLY!
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Monday, January 19, 2009

January 19, 2009
I talked to our agency today. The coordinator in Perm met with the M.O.E on Monday. They had referals to give. Lana(the Perm coordinator) is going Tuesday morning to get the referals.They will have to be translated in Moscow.The referal is usually a picture of the child and medicals. Perm is 11 hours ahead of us so she is probably on the way to get the referals at this moment!!!!Of course nothing is ever easy so we do not know if there is a little girl referal. People say you dont want to get the wrong child but my anxiousness is not even about that. I want to get our little girl but at the same time I am beginning to wonder if God really cares that i just feel confused. I have been so optomisitic most of this year(tomorrow is one year Exactly since we started this crazy journey) but I am feeling kind of cynical now. I guess the whole time I have been looking for a sign that God was in the middle of all of this and have gotten alot of disappointment so I give up trying to figure out what is going to happen next. Maybe God is trying to grow my faith?I have always been the glass is half full and now I am so tired. Scott feels good about this being it. I think if it is not I am going to Scream!!!! I hope I will have good news to post tomorrow!

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Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Russia Christmas
January 6, 2009
We talked to our agency. There will be a meeting January 15. The buzz was Russia stopped referals for 2008 because they had reached their number for the year. We are next on the list. Russia is celebrating Christmas today. Kati will be waking up in a couple of hours and hopefully Father Frost brought her a toy!!!
Thirteen days after Western Christmas, on January 7th, the Russian Orthodox Church celebrates its Christmas, in accordance with the old Julian calendar. It's a day of both solemn ritual and joyous celebration

After the 1917 Revolution, Christmas was banned throughout Russia, along with other religious celebrations. It wasn't until 75 years later, in 1992, that the holiday was openly observed. Today, it's once again celebrated in grand fashion, with the faithful participating in an all-night Mass in incense-filled Cathedrals amidst the company of the painted icons of Saints.

Christmas is one of the most joyous traditions for the celebration of Eve comes from the Russian tradition. On the Eve of Christmas, it is traditional for all family members to gather to share a special meal. The various foods and customs surrounding this meal differed in Holy Russia from village to village and from family to family, but certain aspects remained the same.

An old Russian tradition, whose roots are in the Orthodox faith, is the Christmas Eve fast and meal. The fast, typically, lasts until after the evening worship service or until the first star appears. The dinner that follows is very much a celebration, although, meat is not permitted. Kutya (kutia), a type of porridge, is the primary dish. It is very symbolic with its ingredients being various grains for hope and honey and poppy seed for happiness and peace.

Once the first star has appeared in the sky, the festivities begin. Although all of the food served is strictly Lenten, it is served in an unusually festive and anticipatory manner and style. The Russians call this meal: "The Holy Supper." The family gathers around the table to honor the coming Christ Child. A white table-cloth, symbolic of Christ's swaddling clothes, covers the Table. Hay is brought forth as a reminder of the poverty of the Cave where Jesus was born. A tall white candle is place in the center of the Table, symbolic of Christ "the Light of the World." A large round loaf of Lenten bread, "pagach," symbolic of Christ the Bread of Life, is placed next to the Candle.

The meal begins with the Lord's Prayer, led by the father of the family. A prayer of thanksgiving for all the blessings of the past year is said and then prayers for the good things in the coming year are offered. The head of the family greets those present with the traditional Christmas greeting: "Christ is Born!" The family members respond: "Glorify Him!" The Mother of the family blesses each person present with honey in the form of a cross on each forehead, saying: "In the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, may you have sweetness and many good things in life and in the new year." Following this, everyone partakes of the bread, dipping it first in honey and then in chopped garlic. Honey is symbolic of the sweetness of life, and garlic of the bitterness. The "Holy Supper" is then eaten (see below for details). After dinner, no dishes are washed and the Christmas presents are opened. Then the family goes to Church, coming home between 2 and 3 am. On the Feast of the Nativity, neighbors and family members visit each other, going from house to house , eating, drinking and singing Christmas Carols all the day long.

The "Holy Supper"
Christmas Eve dinner is meatless but festive. The most important ingredient is a special porridge called kutya. It is made of wheatberries or other grains which symbolize hope and immortality, and honey and poppy seeds which ensure happiness, success, and untroubled rest. A ceremony involving the blessing of the home is frequently observed. The kutya is eaten from a common dish to symbolize unity. Some families used to throw a spoonful of kutya up to the ceiling. According to tradition, if the kutya stuck, there would be a plentiful honey harvest.

Traditionally, the "Holy Supper" consists of 12 different foods, symbolic of the 12 Apostles. Although there was also some variation in the foods from place to place and village to village, the following is a good summary of what was typically served. It comes to us from Elizabeth Kontras, who celebrated the Feast of the Nativity in the traditional Russian way with her babishka (Grandmother) and zeddo (Grandfather) in Monessen, Pennsylvania until their passing in the 1970-1980's. The twelve foods are:

1) Mushroom soup with zaprashka; this is often replaced with Sauerkraut soup
2) Lenten bread ("pagach")
3) Grated garlic
4) Bowl of honey
5) Baked cod
6) Fresh Apricots, Oranges, Figs and Dates
7) Nuts
8) Kidney beans (slow cooked all day) seasoned with shredded potatoes, lots of garlic, salt and pepper to taste
9) Peas
10) Parsley Potatoes (boiled new potatoes with chopped parsley and margarine)
11) Bobal'ki (small biscuits combined with sauerkraut or poppyseed with honey)
12) Red Wine

It was once common practice, on Christmas Eve, for groups of people masquerading as manger animals to travel from house to house, having themselves a rousing good time, and singing songs known as kolyadki . Some kolyadki were pastoral carols to the baby Jesus, while others were homages to the ancient solar goddess Kolyada, who brings the lengthening days of sunlight through the winter. In return for their songs, the singers were offered food and coins, which they gladly accepted, moving on to the next home.

Ded Moroz and yolka
The origin of Santa Claus is in St. Nicholas. He was born in Asia Minor at at the Greco-Roman city of of Myra in the province of Lycia, at a time when the region was entirely Greek in origin. Due to the suppression of religion during the Soviet regime, St. Nicholas was replaced by Ded Moroz or Grandfather Frost, the Russian Spirit of Winter who brought gifts on New Year's. He is accompanied by Snyegurochka, the Snowmaiden, who helps distribute the gifts.

The Christmas tree (Yolka) is yet another tradition banned during the Soviet era.To keep the custom alive, people decorated New Year's trees, instead. Since ornaments were either very costly or unavailable, family trees were trimmed with homemade decorations and fruit. Yolka comes from the word which refers to a fir tree. The custom of decorating Christmas trees was introduced to Russia by Peter the Great, after he visited Europe during the 1700's.

Why January 7?
In ancient times, many, mostly unreliable methods had been used to calculate the dates according to either the lunar or solar cycles. By Roman times, the calendar had become three months out with the seasons, so in 46 BC, Julius Caesar commissioned the astronomer, Sosigenes to devise a more reliable method. This, we know as the Julian Calendar and was used widely for 1500 years. The month of his birth, Caesar had named Quintilis, but the Roman Senate later re-named it Julius (July) in his honour. In those days, February had 30 days every 4 years.

However, this calendar was still 11 minutes and 14 seconds longer than the solar year, so that by the year 1580, the calendar had accumulated 10 days off again. In 1582, therefore, Pope Gregory XIII corrected the difference between the sun and calendar by ordering 10 days dropped from October, the month with the least Roman Catholic Feast days. His calendar, we know as the Gregorian Calendar, which is used in almost all of the world today. Pope Gregory made further changes to keep the calendar in line, which on average is only 26.3 seconds longer than the solar year. The Gregorian Calendar is so accurate that it will take until the year 4316 to gain a whole day on the sun.

That year, 1582, October 5th became October 15th and was immediately adopted in most Roman Catholic nations of Europe. Various German states kept the Julian Calendar until 1700. Britain and the American Colonies didn't change until 1752, but Russia and Turkey did not adopt the Gregorian Calendar until the early 1900's.

So, January 7th by the Georgian Calendar would have been December 25th by the old Julian Calendar and is therefore why it is still Christmas Day for the Russian Orthodox Church. Many Russians will have celebrated along with the rest of us and will then celebrate again on the Orthodox date.

New Year Eve instead of Christmas
Few people in Russia remember, but when the communists took power in 1917 they banned the open expression of religion. While it was easy to pray at home, the Russian people were concerned about giving up their traditional Christmas celebration.

But where there is a will, there is a way!

They re-invented the New Year's holiday tradition to include a decorated tree, and introduced a character called "Grandfather Frost." Known as "Ded Moroz," Grandfather Frost looked very much like the western "Santa Claus" or "Pere Noel" - except he wore a blue suit.

Actually, Ded Moroz was a character that existed in the pagan culture, centuries earlier. For a time, Christmas was all but forgotten. In fact, it was generally celebrated only in small villages, where the citizenry was far from the prying eyes of the Party.

Today, Christmas is celebrated again, on January 7. But, to date, New Year's remains the bigger event.

We will teach Kati about her heritage and show her the love of jesus and next year she will be celebrating his birth with us!!!